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		<title>Our Lovingly-Crafted Ceremony</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh ceremony. You&#8217;re so bittersweet to write about. Bitter because I don&#8217;t have professional photos. Sweet because you were by far my favorite part of our wedding. Since I don&#8217;t really have photos, I&#8217;m going to post our ceremony here (as best as I can remember it) along with the few pictures from friends and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh ceremony. You&#8217;re so bittersweet to write about. Bitter because I don&#8217;t have professional photos. Sweet because you were by far my favorite part of our wedding. Since I don&#8217;t really have photos, I&#8217;m going to post our ceremony here (as best as I can remember it) along with the few pictures from friends and family.</p>
<p>Note: I wrote our ceremony but stole pieces from all over the interwebs. I cannot recall where I found pieces, what I&#8217;ve changed or how I changed it. This was lovingly crafted for Chet and I over the entire engagement period, with pieces of it finished the Thursday before the wedding, in our typical style. If you&#8217;re really super interested, send me an email and I&#8217;ll send you the word document. It&#8217;s spaced and formatted better than this will be.<br />
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<strong>Processional to “<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aekgqEl1mlo">Every Morning</a>” by Keb’ Mo’</strong><br />
<em>We just used one song for everyone to walk in with.</em></p>
<p><em><img class="alignnone" title="Dad Walking Me " src="http://images5b.snapfish.com/232323232%7Ffp6326;%3Enu%3D3339%3E:;3%3E24:%3EWSNRCG%3D33;;9;:;43337nu0mrj" alt="" width="322" height="241" /><br />
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<p><strong>Welcome and Gathering Words</strong></p>
<p><em>Jeff</em>: Throughout the memory of humanity the founding of a new family has been noted as an act of high and holy order. It has been celebrated with a service of marriage in sacred groves, in humble meeting houses, under vaulted arches, in temples with ancient rites, and in makeshift spaces with hurried words. We gather here today in this place because of what we share; a desire to affirm and support the relationship of Chet and Nicole. Marriage requires a commitment to care for another person, to show concern for the life and growth of those whom we love. Marriage requires a commitment to respond to another person, to help meet their needs. Marriage requires a commitment to respect the unique individuality of that person, to help them grow and unfold for their own sake. Marriage requires a commitment to transcend our own egos, to use reason and humility to understand another person; and by doing this, we discover ourselves. All these commitments require that we give ourselves to another person; by this giving we experience our strength and our vitality. We experience ourselves and overflowing and alive. Today we affirm and celebrate the wedding of Nicole and Chet.</p>
<p><strong>Ring Warming:</strong></p>
<p><em>Jeff</em>:  Before Chet and Nicole exchange rings later in the ceremony, they have asked that the people before them participate in a “warming of the rings.” If you are unfamiliar with this practice, take the opportunity to wish them health, happiness, and all that is noble and good in life when the rings pass to your care. Hold them for but a moment and warm them with your love, making a silent wish for the future this couple will share. When returned, these rings will contain that which is all the more precious&#8211;your love and pledge of support for their union.</p>
<p><em>We really wanted a ring warming. We ordered a little bowl from a lovely etsy vendor with our names and wedding date printed on it. Then, we tied ribbon through the said bowl and our rings and had that passed around. It made it through the everyone and was just perfect. Many commented that this was their favorite part of our ceremony.</em></p>
<p><strong>Quilt Wrapping:</strong></p>
<p><em>Jeff</em>: In the Jewish tradition, marriages take place under a huppah, which can be constructed from the fabric of friends and family. In some Hispanic cultures, marriages are bound together by a lasso, symbolizing the beginning of a new life together. In other traditions, a unity candle or sand may be used to represent the blending of two families. Chet and Nicole have decided to do a quilt wrapping. In this symbolic gesture they will be wrapped in a quilt which has been signed with love, from all of you.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Here, Carol and Sissi will wrap the quilt around Chet and Nicole. The 6 of them will continue to stand together until they’ve said “We do”.</span></p>
<p><em>Jeff</em>: This quilt signifies the warmth and support of family and friends that are needed to sustain a healthy relationship. It signifies the bond between them and the closeness that will continue to develop day after day. And, it signifies the comfort and beauty they bring to each other and will continue to bring to each other. Chet, Nicole . . . take a moment to just breathe, and simply enjoy your friends and family who gathered here to spend this day with you. This group of loved ones may never be together in the same place again. Take some time to think about how they have touched your lives, and why they’re here with you today.  Marriage isn’t just the joining together of two lives, but the joining together of two families. Let me draw special attention to the families who have cherished and loved Chet and Nicole all their lives. Today you look with love and affirmation on the faces of your children, whose independence you’ve nurtured with your love, guidance, and support. Notwithstanding all the challenges of their upbringings, they now represent the fullness of your lives. Each one of you is an enduring part of who they are, having made an indelible mark on their characters. May you be for both of them now, what you were to the one: accepting, supportive, caring, and with a generosity of spirit that always includes them both.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/quilt-wrapping.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium  wp-image-905" title="quilt wrapping" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/quilt-wrapping-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p>So I ask you now, Nicole’s family, do you welcome Chet as a member of your family, and grant your blessings, love and acceptance?</p>
<p>“We do.”</p>
<p>Chet’s family do you welcome Nicole as a member of your family, and grant your blessings, love and acceptance?</p>
<p>“We do.”</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Chet and Nicole’s families go back to their seats at this point.</span></p>
<p>The intimate, yet public, nature of this ceremony reminds us all that none of us exists in isolation. We are social beings. Our identities, even our very existence, is nurtured and defined by our family and friends. It’s through community that we call into being the power of love to build bridges, to make us feel whole, to allow us to feel at home in the universe. (To the guests) Your presence here tonight is a visible expression of your love and respect for Chet and Nicole’s decision to marry, and reminds them that they don’t belong to one another alone, but to a larger community of friends and relatives who wish them well. As a part of that community, I invite all of you to play your part &#8211; by lending an ear, a hand of kindness, a voice of experience, an encouraging smile, and the gift of your company. Stand beside them, and never between them. Offer them your love and your support, but not your judgment. In sum, support their union with your friendship. Will you, as Chet and Nicole’s friends and family lend your support, love, and experience? Please answer “we will”</p>
<p>“We will”</p>
<p><em>Oh. Our quilt wrapping. This was another incredible part. My aunt made our quilt and then we asked everyone to sign it as our guest book. We also used this to replace &#8220;unity candles&#8221; or sand. Those felt trite to us (and that&#8217;s just us!!) and we wanted something else. We also wanted a way to incorporate our families being up there with us, and this worked beautifully for that.</em></p>
<p><strong>Vow Exchange:</strong></p>
<p><em>Jeff</em>: Now, before Chet and Nicole share their vows with you, I would like to read from Romans 12: 9-18 &#8220;Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, and faithful in prayer. Share with God&#8217;s people who are in need. Practice hospitality. Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited. Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.&#8221;</p>
<p><em>We originally had something in here but Jeff, who stepped in last minute, opted to do a little mini sermon, most of which I cannot recall (oh how I wish I had been more present!). However, I do recall him discussing that marriage is meant to be 90/10, the amount of work versus easiness.</em></p>
<p>Now, if anyone in their community knows of a reason for these two not to be wed, keep it in your hearts. Pray that God may show them kindness and joy with one another, and grant peace in your heart and their relationship. Remember that worrying brings no good, only prayer may satisfy our troubled hearts.</p>
<p><em>This was unique and questioned by Jeff, though he said he really liked it. I had hear it at a friend&#8217;s wedding many years ago and fell in love with it. I find it so much simpler, and happier than the &#8220;Speak now or forever hold your piece!&#8221;. Jeff told us that he no longer does that at weddings because one time someone spoke&#8230;.</em></p>
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<p><em>Jeff</em>: Do you, Chet and Nicole, pledge to create a life of mutual respect, compassion, generosity, and patience towards each other as you grow together in years?</p>
<p>-We do.</p>
<p><em>Jeff</em>: Do you pledge to recognize each other’s individuality and celebrate each other’s uniqueness as a strength in marriage. While at the same time, will you guard one another’s weaknesses with understanding, support, and inspiration?</p>
<p>-We do.</p>
<p><em>Jeff</em>: And do you pledge to share the love you have for each other with all living beings? To be a couple that lets their marriage radiate into others , making their lives more beautiful because of it?</p>
<p>-We do.</p>
<p><em>Jeff</em>: Chet/ Nicole, If you will face each other and repeat after me:</p>
<p>Chet, I give you my life. With all that I am and all that I have, I honor you.</p>
<p>Nicole, I give you my life. With all that I am and all that I have, I honor you.</p>
<p><em>So here, we did something a bit different. We shared &#8220;secret vows&#8221; which were like the ones we would have said out loud, but we wanted to share them together, privately, with eachother. Odd, I know, since we had a public wedding, but the idea was still there.</em></p>
<p><strong>Hand Blessing:<br />
</strong><em>Jeff</em>: The hands have a physical connection to the heart, and a hand blessing symbolically brings two hearts together. As Shakespeare said, &#8220;now join your hands, and with your hand&#8217;s your hearts.&#8221; Doug, will you please begin the hand blessing.</p>
<p><em>Doug</em>: Nicole, please turn to face Chet and hold his hands, palms up, so that you may see what a gift they are to you. These are the hands, young, strong and vibrant with love, that are holding yours on your wedding day. These are the hands that will work beside you throughout life. These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through a lifetime of joy and sorrow.  These are the hands that will wipe tears from your eyes: tears of pure happiness, laughter, pain and sadness. These are the hands that will comfort you in illness, and hold you when fear or sorrow may rack your mind. These are the hands that will cook for you. These are the hands that will give you support as you chase down your dreams. These are the hands that will tenderly lift your chin, and brush your cheek as they raise your face to look into his eyes; eyes that are filled completely with his love and his desire for you.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/doug-reading.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-904" title="doug reading" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/doug-reading-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="199" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><em>Ashton</em>: Chet, please hold Nicole’s hands, palms up in yours, where you may see the gift that they are to you. These are the hands that are smooth, young, and carefree that are holding yours on your wedding day, as she pledges her love and commitment to you all the days of her life. These are the hands that will play games with you. These are the hands that will massage tension from your neck in the evenings after a long day. These are the hands that will hold you as you struggle through difficult times. They are the hands that will comfort you when you are sick and console you when you are grieving. These are the hands that will passionately love and cherish you through the years. These are the hands that will work alongside yours, which will give you support and encouragement, as together you build your future and share your innermost hopes and dreams.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/ashton-reading.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-903" title="ashton reading" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/ashton-reading-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><em>Jeff</em>: God, bless the hands that you see before you this day. May they always be held by one another. Give them strength to hold on during the storms of stress and dark of disillusionment. Keep them gentle and tender as they nurture each other in their love. Help use these hands to continue building a  relationship founded in faith, hope, caring and joy. Let Chet and Nicole see their four hands as healer, protector, shelter and guide.</p>
<p><em>I found this in March 2009 and fell deeply and madly in love with it. Chet&#8217;s hands are my favorite part about his body, and so the thought of looking at each other&#8217;s hands this way was beautiful. We changed some of the words for us (cooking, games etc.) but some was kept the same.</em></p>
<p><strong>Exchange of rings:</strong></p>
<p><em>Jeff</em>: The rings you will give and receive this day are the symbols of the endless love which you enter into as husband and wife. You are each the beginning and the ending, each the giver and the receiver. To marry the person you have set your heart upon is a joy unparalleled in human life and these rings  mark the beginning of a journey together. Wear them proudly, for they are symbols which speak of the love that you hold for each other.</p>
<p>Today, Chet and Nicole offer each other a ring, which most of you have held and warmed with your wishes—these circles represent the timeless nature of your love and commitment for them; their empty spaces represent the limitless possibilities of your hopes and dreams for their future. With your wishes, you have guaranteed to be a community of support for them as they enter into a lifetime commitment of love and friendship, joy and sorrow, trials and successes. You have said that you will be there when they need counseling or a friendly voice to speak too.</p>
<p>Heavenly Father, we call for your blessing for these rings, both as symbols of love and union between Chet and Nicole, and as tokens of their hopes and dreams fulfilled in their commitment to each other this day and every day of the rest of their lives together. We ask that these rings hold and carry these dreams, remind them of the endless circle of their union to each other, and to be a beautiful reflection of their sacred vows to each other, now and always. We seek this blessing of love not only for Chet and Nicole, but also for all those who are now married, or have in the past made vows of love to someone they cherished. All this we ask, as is our divine right as children of God, through Christ in us, Amen.</p>
<p>Nicole, please take Chet&#8217;s hand in yours and repeat after me: As I place this ring, I choose you to be my husband &#8212; this day, and every day. May this ring forever be to you the symbol of my growing love and a symbol of my commitment to you</p>
<p><img class="alignnone" title="Ring Exchange" src="http://photos-a.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs178.snc3/20563_622996333535_34416732_36467031_3130464_n.jpg" alt="" width="263" height="236" /></p>
<p>Chet, please take Nicole&#8217;s hand in yours and repeat after me: As I place this ring, I choose you to be my wife &#8212; this day, and every day. May this ring forever be to you the symbol of my growing love, and a symbol of my commitment to you.</p>
<p><em>I&#8217;d like it to be known that we haven&#8217;t removed our wedding bands since this day.</em></p>
<p><strong>Pronunciation:</strong></p>
<p><em>Jeff:</em> You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment.  At some point, you decided to marry.  From that moment of yes to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making promises and agreements in an informal way. All those conversations that were held riding in a car or over a meal or during long walks &#8211; all those sentences that began with “When we’re married” and continued with “I will and you will and we will”- those late night talks that included “someday” and “somehow” and “maybe”- and all those promises that are unspoken matters of the heart. All these common things, and more, are the real process of a wedding. The symbolic vows that you have made are a way of saying to one another, “You know all those things we’ve promised and hoped and dreamed- well, I meant it all, every word.”  Look at one another and remember this moment in time. Before this moment you have been many things to one another- acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, dancing partner, and even teacher, for you have learned much from one another in these last few years. Now you have said a few words that have taken you across a threshold of life, and things will never quite be the same between you. For after this day, you shall say to the world, this- is my husband, this- is my wife.</p>
<p>Chet, you may now kiss your wife.</p>
<div class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 370px"><img title="First Kiss" src="http://images5b.snapfish.com/232323232%7Ffp6326:%3Enu%3D3339%3E:;3%3E24:%3EWSNRCG%3D33;;9:4678337nu0mrj" alt="" width="360" height="270" /><p class="wp-caption-text">This photo is one of my favorites because in it&#39;s  blurry/shakiness it seems to catch all of my emotions...</p></div>
<p><em>We choose this reading by Robert Fulgham for our pronunciation. It was just perfect.</em></p>
<p><em>One of our friends recorded the pronunciation, and as soon as I find it, I&#8217;ll stick it up here. It&#8217;s on Facebook, if you&#8217;re my friend&#8230; </em></p>
<p><strong>Recessional to &#8220;<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qyv3PJs-KBw">When I&#8217;m 64</a>&#8221;<br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;"><em>Because who doesn&#8217;t want to walk out to a Beatles song?! </em></span> </strong></p>
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		<title>Gifts, gifts, gifts</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 21:29:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So I forgot to post this yesterday, so you get a twofer. As I said before, The guys were given cuff links that Chet made (no really, he made them) as well as unique ties. Chet showing off his cufflinks&#8230; and his bad ass tie. The girls were given these shawls&#8230; as well as some [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So I forgot to post this yesterday, so you get a twofer. <img src='http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>As I said before, The guys were given cuff links that Chet <em>made</em> (no really, he made them) as well as unique ties.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/groom.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-862" title="groom" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/groom-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>Chet showing off his cufflinks&#8230; and his bad ass tie.</p>
<p>The girls were given these shawls&#8230;<br />
<a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/PICT0021.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-864" title="PICT0021" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/PICT0021-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p>as well as some earrings that you can kind of, sort of see on them, and then see for reals below.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone" title="earrings" src="http://ny-image2.etsy.com/il_fullxfull.76932526.jpg" alt="" width="202" height="270" /></p>
<p>Chet and I decided to partake in the tradition of giving each other gifts. However, we opted to keep them on the more cost effective side of things&#8230; which I think made it more creative.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-4.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-859" title="getting ready (4)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-4-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="123" height="185" /></a><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-5.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-860" title="getting ready (5)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-5-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="123" height="185" /></a></p>
<p>As I said before, I &#8220;embroidered&#8221; a pocket square the night before the wedding for him. I put on there:</p>
<p>love is enough<br />
11-21-2009</p>
<p>Ask him about it, he&#8217;ll show you.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-6.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-861" title="getting ready (6)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-6-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>Charlotte helping him into it.</p>
<p>Chet, got waaaay more creative though. He created a secret book thingy to hold my gift. He used the book &#8220;Greatest American Love Poems&#8221; or something like that. He hollowed out the book, put a poem which I love in the back and then put my gift inside. It was fabulous. I bet you want to know what he got me, eh?<br />
<a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-15.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-858" title="getting ready (15)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-15-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>He bought me a swallow locket. And inside the locket (because this is just cool) he put some of his favorite love song lyrics. Like I said, awesome.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone" title="locket" src="http://ny-image2.etsy.com/il_fullxfull.87322502.jpg" alt="" width="257" height="257" /></p>
<p>Almost all of these things were purchased through etsy.com. That place is amazing. And it&#8217;s your best friend.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 23:23:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So! The place is as decorated as it&#8217;s going to be, and it&#8217;s 12:30. We are supposed to be back at 2:00 for pictures, breathers etc. since the ceremony is to begin at 4:30. Normally, this wouldn&#8217;t be a problem. However, there was one bridesmaid, all the groomsmen, the groom&#8230; they were missing. Like literally, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So! The place is as decorated as it&#8217;s going to be, and it&#8217;s 12:30. We are supposed to be back at 2:00 for pictures, breathers etc. since the ceremony is to begin at 4:30.</p>
<p>Normally, this wouldn&#8217;t be a problem. However, there was one bridesmaid, all the groomsmen, the groom&#8230; they were missing. Like literally, no-one-knew-where-they-were-missing. That&#8217;s not what I was looking for at the time.</p>
<p>Fine. Take a breath. Move on. I gathered up the bridesmaids I had and headed over to my parents. Did I mention I forgot to feed them?</p>
<p>DON&#8217;T DO THAT!</p>
<p>First, it&#8217;s just rude.</p>
<p>But, it also lead to people getting hungry (reasonably so, I&#8217;m not daft). Which lead to eating really, really quickly at my parents place before getting ready. This isn&#8217;t necessarily a bad thing, but remember that two needed showers. Plus hair, make up, dresses&#8230; Yeah.</p>
<p>Well, we made it upstairs and into the bathroom to begin the process.</p>
<p>Now, this is how you know I&#8217;m not a normal bride. Well, I&#8217;m sure other brides do this, but you don&#8217;t hear of it.</p>
<p>I helped with hair and make up on one of my &#8216;maids before doing my own. And might I say&#8230; she looked hot!</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-7.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-846" title="getting ready (7)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-7-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p><img class=" alignnone" title="shake your head" src="http://photos-d.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs198.snc3/20563_622995809585_34416732_36466989_4394042_n.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></p>
<p>&#8220;Now, shake your head like this!&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-10.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-847" title="getting ready (10)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-10-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p><img class="alignnone" title="shower" src="http://hphotos-snc3.fbcdn.net/hs178.snc3/20563_622995814575_34416732_36466990_4065401_n.jpg" alt="" width="270" height="360" /></p>
<p>We also don&#8217;t believe in privacy.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-2.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-844" title="getting ready (2)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-2-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>While we were upstairs, Chet was downstairs with his groomsmen. I have no idea when they showed up, but they did, and they got ready. They were also at the venue way before we were too.<br />
Cursed make up.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-17.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-850" title="getting ready (17)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-17-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>Once all the ladies looked like their glamorous selves, they went in and signed the bottom of my shoes. I loved it!</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-18.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-851" title="getting ready (18)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-18-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>(Obviously)</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-13.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-848" title="getting ready (13)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-13-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>Then, it was my turn. By the way, it&#8217;s about 1:45 now. Whoops.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-14.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-849" title="getting ready (14)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-14-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>I chose to do my own make up and hair out of frugality.<br />
I also wanted something simple. (I looked gorgeous, by the way!)</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ChetAndNicole_Details013.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-853" title="ChetAndNicole_Details013" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ChetAndNicole_Details013-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ChetAndNicole_Details014.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-843" title="ChetAndNicole_Details014" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ChetAndNicole_Details014-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>Close ups of the dress&#8230; Our poor photographer had hell with the dress. It&#8217;s white, and all he had to work with was a white background, so there aren&#8217;t really any great shots of the full dress &#8212; until it&#8217;s on me, duh!</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-19.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-852" title="getting ready (19)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-19-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure she had said something snarky here.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-854" title="getting ready" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/getting-ready-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>And into the dress I go.</p>
<h6>&#8220;Shake your head&#8221; and &#8220;shower curtain&#8221; are credited to Lindsey Speights.<br />
All other credit goes to Thomas Boydston</h6>
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		<title>Day of prepping or what the hell was I thinking?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 22:05:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Honestly, the day of prepping wasn&#8217;t all that terrible, for me. I finally fell asleep around 2 in the morning because we first had to locate the wedding band&#8230; that was fun, and then I had to finish his gift. Whoops. Part of Chet&#8217;s gift was a pocket square that I had bought everything for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Honestly, the day of prepping wasn&#8217;t all that terrible, for me. I finally fell asleep around 2 in the morning because we first had to locate the wedding band&#8230; that was fun, and then I had to finish his gift. Whoops.</p>
<p>Part of Chet&#8217;s gift was a <a href="http://www.oncewed.com/8395/wedding-blog/diy-wedding/diy-pocket-square-love-note/">pocket square</a> that I had bought everything for back in August. However, I never ended up working on it, and found myself at 1:30 a.m., the night before the wedding working on it. So anyway, I nestled my head away and slept until my alarm went off at 7:30.</p>
<p>See, my girls and I were staying in one hotel, but getting ready at the house my parents had rented across town. This created all kinds of logistical nightmares, some of which involved showers, hair, dressing, forgetting stuff&#8230; nightmares. I opted to shower at 7:30 as did another bridesmaid. The other two decided to shower at my parent&#8217;s place, and the fourth&#8230; she just came ready.</p>
<p>Then, my bridesmaids did something fabulous for me&#8230; they took me to get my nails done. See, there are a couple of things that make me feel really, really pretty. Part of this is hair and make up, and the other part is having my nails all done up. So, Ashton paid to have that happen.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone" title="feet" src="http://photos-d.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs110.snc3/15751_616320601755_34405905_36242349_4894434_n.jpg" alt="" width="299" height="224" /><br />
(I&#8217;m the one in the white <img src='http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>After my feet and hands were all pretty we headed over to the hall to finish decorating.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ChetAndNicole_Funsaver004.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-833" title="ChetAndNicole_Funsaver004" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ChetAndNicole_Funsaver004-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ChetAndNicole_Prep001.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-834" title="ChetAndNicole_Prep001" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ChetAndNicole_Prep001-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>Finishing the seating chart. This was a pain in my side.</p>
<p>Partly because I didn&#8217;t want it, thus I didn&#8217;t care.</p>
<p>Partly because we forgot a way to tell people where they were to sit.</p>
<p>Partly because I didn&#8217;t want to mess with it day of.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ChetAndNicole_Prep021.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-835" title="ChetAndNicole_Prep021" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ChetAndNicole_Prep021-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>It rained. And it was 40 degrees. That&#8217;s not the ideal for a wedding that was supposed to be outside. So, everything was moved inside where the dancing was to take place. This kind of became logistically a pain in my ass, but it was what it had to be. My dad looks like he is directing, Doug is doing as he should be, and that blur there was one of the <a href="http://www.brickwoodevents.com/">day of coordinators</a>.</p>
<p>Let me pause and tell you this: I would not have been able to make it without those day ofs&#8217;. The end.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ChetAndNicole_Prep022.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-836" title="ChetAndNicole_Prep022" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ChetAndNicole_Prep022-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>Even the bride was working. Don&#8217;t hate.</p>
<p>Next up: Getting dressed, and how you know I&#8217;m not a normal bride.</p>
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		<title>Night Before</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 14:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So! Getting ready! On Friday, we had our rehearsal, dinner, and then spent 4 hours decorating for the wedding. Phew. Since our pastor had to back out on us for personal reasons, we had to find a new one. We were directed to Jeff Ganz at Willis UMC. He met with us Thursday to go [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So! Getting ready!</p>
<p>On Friday, we had our rehearsal, dinner, and then spent 4 hours decorating for the wedding. Phew.</p>
<p>Since our pastor had to back out on us for personal reasons, we had to find a new one. We were directed to Jeff Ganz at Willis UMC. He met with us Thursday to go over the ceremony which I painstakingly wrote, then came down Friday to do the rehearsal.<br />
<a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/rehersal.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-824" title="rehersal" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/rehersal-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/rehersal-2.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-825" title="rehersal (2)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/rehersal-2-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>After our rehearsal, we went to the Stardust Room for dinner. It was one of our favorite hang outs while in school, and one of the first places we decided to have anything at.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/rehersal-4.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-827" title="rehersal (4)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/rehersal-4-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-828" title="rehersal (5)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/rehersal-5-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></p>
<p>The rehearsal dinner was where we handed out gifts to our bridal party and families. The groomsmen all received hand made cuff links from Chet and <a href="http://chetandnicole.com/2009/budget/oscar-wilde-has-a-quote/">ties</a> from Toybreaker.</p>
<p>The bridesmaids received earrings, shawls, hand painted knick knack bowls and hand written letters from me.</p>
<p>Our parents each received a photo frame that was engraved and had one of our engagement photos in it.</p>
<p>And Charlotte got a little canvas print.</p>
<p>After the rehearsal, all of the bridal party plus some headed back to the venue and we decorated, decorated, decorated. For some reason, no photos were really taken during this, but man was it fun/intense/crazy/emotional/&#8230;.</p>
<p>And, my friends are incredible. We had groups putting together our programs, re cutting some of the <a href="http://chetandnicole.com/2010/budget/diy/corks/">corks</a>, ironing table runners, decorating table numbers, and helping me re design the down stairs for the ceremony (which had to be moved inside).</p>
<p>Once all the decorating was done (well, that we could do for the night), we left to go our separate ways. Chet and I decided to not stay together the night before because I wanted some alone time with the gals. And that was the perfect decision for us, well for me anyway.</p>
<p>Oh! Story! I lost his wedding band the night before the wedding. I literally had had it in my possession for about 12 hours when I lost it. That was AWESOME! At two in the morning my girls and I are running around town looking for it. Turns out, the box had wedged itself in the trunk&#8230;</p>
<p>Next up&#8230; <a href="http://chetandnicole.com/2010/uncategorized/day-of-prepping">day of preparations</a>.</p>
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		<title>Corks!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 03:48:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I made corks for the wedding. Odd, eh? I wanted to use them as place markers for the family table (we didn&#8217;t do a head table) but I was over-ruled. So, we ended up using them to label the food and the cakes. © BrickWood Events Pretty huh? So, how did I do it? Well, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I made corks for the wedding. Odd, eh? I wanted to use them as place markers for the family table (we didn&#8217;t do a head table) but I was over-ruled. So, we ended up using them to label the food and the cakes.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-790" title="corks" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks.jpg" alt="" width="380" height="253" /></a><br />
© <a href="http://www.brickwoodevents.com/">BrickWood Events</a></p>
<p>Pretty huh?</p>
<p>So, how did I do it? Well, very carefully.</p>
<p>First, you need a bag of corks. These can be purchased at any beer or wine making store. We got 25 corks for $4.00</p>
<p>You also need an exacto type knife (I used the utility knife from my tool kit) and something to cut on. I chose to cut on my wedding to do list, it was cathartic.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-2.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-792" title="corks (2)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-2-1024x576.jpg" alt="" width="379" height="213" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-8.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-797" title="corks (8)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-8-1024x576.jpg" alt="" width="383" height="215" /></a></p>
<p>First step: cut about 1/3 of the way into the cork so that you can create a base. Basically, you have to cut the bottom of the cork off, and it&#8217;s a pain. But don&#8217;t be afraid!</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-3.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-793" title="corks (3)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-3-1024x576.jpg" alt="" width="380" height="213" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-5.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-795" title="corks (5)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-5-1024x576.jpg" alt="" width="379" height="213" /></a></p>
<p>This is what the bottom of the cork should look like.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-6.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-796" title="corks (6)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-6-1024x576.jpg" alt="" width="381" height="214" /></a></p>
<p>Next: you&#8217;ll want to sand down the bottom of the cork so it sits nicely. Just keep sanding until you&#8217;re happy.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-7.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-799" title="corks (7)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-7-1024x576.jpg" alt="" width="379" height="213" /></a></p>
<p>See? Pretty.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-4.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-794" title="corks (4)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-4-1024x576.jpg" alt="" width="383" height="215" /></a></p>
<p>Now, the obnoxious part. It&#8217;s a toss up of whether this is easier or harder than the other. The thing you have to focus on here is a) cutting straight and b) making it wide enough to be able to slip paper into, but not so wide that it won&#8217;t tightly hold the paper.</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-9.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-798" title="corks (9)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/corks-9-1024x576.jpg" alt="" width="381" height="214" /></a></p>
<p>Voíla! You have a pretty cork place holder thing. You&#8217;ll notice they aren&#8217;t perfect, but they were really nice. A quick google search shows that you can get about 8 corks for $12.00 that are like this, which is like 1.50 each. Ours were 25 for $4.00 or .16 a piece. My math may be wrong, you&#8217;re more than welcome to correct. In this case, I felt like this was legit as far as a craft goes. (Unlike the <a href="http://chetandnicole.com/2009/budget/obligatory-invite-breakdown/">invitations</a>) One thing to be wary of is blisters, which I had after 25. Not the kind that can be popped, but little red ones. Just a warning.</p>
<p>On another note, I heard that someone is following my directions for the <a href="http://chetandnicole.com/2009/budget/diy/making-your-own-garter-is/">garter</a>. That makes me so happy! If you do any of these, please send photos? There is absolutely nothing like hearing people read your blog to make you want to keep blogging.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Originally, I wasn&#8217;t going to have a garter. I didn&#8217;t want to do a bouquet and garter toss. I don&#8217;t like them. They make me uncomfortable. But, Chet and I were doing something and I mentioned we weren&#8217;t having one and he was broken hearted. Damn. Fine. Well, I didn&#8217;t want to spend $30 on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Originally, I wasn&#8217;t going to have a garter. I didn&#8217;t want to do a bouquet and garter toss. I don&#8217;t like them. They make me uncomfortable. But, Chet and I were doing something and I mentioned we weren&#8217;t having one and he was broken hearted. Damn. Fine. Well, I didn&#8217;t want to spend $30 on a frilly, fancy garter that would just be uncomfortable. So, I though, &#8220;Pssssh! I can make one!&#8221; That was over a month ago. I sat down last night a worked on it. I&#8217;m a bit of a procrastinator.</p>
<p>I found no good tutorials online on how to do this. I kind of picked up bits and pieces, but most just sucked, no matter how they tried. Granted, I&#8217;m not the tutorial reading kind so that could have been the problem.</p>
<p>Anywho&#8230; I&#8217;m posting my tutorial if you want it. Let me know if there are any questions.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-627" title="P1080119" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080119-300x168.jpg" alt="P1080119" width="300" height="168" /><br />
First, pick some fabric you like and cut it to your desired length. Who knows what that is. Everyone says something else. I have a 17in thick thigh, I cut mine to 23 inches and it fits lovely. Yes, it&#8217;s crooked, don&#8217;t worry.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-628" title="Step 2" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080120-300x168.jpg" alt="Step 2" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>Then, lay out the ribbon or fabric you want to put over the base fabric. See, it&#8217;s already getting confusing.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-629" title="Step 3" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080121-300x168.jpg" alt="Step 3" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>Next, sew said ribbon onto the base fabric. The difficulty of this really depends on how good of a sew-er you are. I didn&#8217;t have much of a problem with it, but I&#8217;m a decent sew-er.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-630" title="Step 4" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080122-300x168.jpg" alt="Step 4" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>When you&#8217;re done with the first part you have smiley face basically. I think it&#8217;s cute.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-631" title="Step 5" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080123-300x168.jpg" alt="Step 5" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>Both sides of the ribbon are sewn down. Please note, the ends should not be sewed. You must feed the elastic through there. It&#8217;s looks bad, but it&#8217;s okay.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-632" title="Step 6" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080124-300x168.jpg" alt="Step 6" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-633" title="Step 7" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080125-300x168.jpg" alt="Step 7" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-634" title="Step 6 Fin" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080126-300x168.jpg" alt="Step 6 Fin" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>Now, it&#8217;s time to scrunch it. I&#8217;m sure there is a waaaay more professional way to do this, but I chose just shoving it onto a screwdriver. Actually, Chet figured that out.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-635" title="Step 7" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080127-300x168.jpg" alt="Step 7" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>Then, we taped the elastic to the screwdriver and pushed the fabric over it. Again, I&#8217;m positive there&#8217;s a more professional way but this worked for us.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-637" title="Step 7 Cont. " src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080129-300x168.jpg" alt="Step 7 Cont. " width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>Feed the garter over the elastic&#8230; be careful not to loosen the tape.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-638" title="Step 7 fin" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080130-300x168.jpg" alt="Step 7 fin" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>Alright! Now your garter is over the elastic! You deserve a pat on the back. At this point, Chet held onto one end while I held the other.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-640" title="Step 8" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080132-300x168.jpg" alt="Step 8" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>This gets really scientific now. Scrunch the garter up to your liking. THE ELASTIC SHOULD BE SHORTER THAN THE MATERIAL!!! Thus, if you cut your garter material to 23 inches, do not make the elastic the same length. This is what allows it to be all scrunchy. I think I cut my elastic to about 15 inches.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-641" title="Step 9" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080133-300x168.jpg" alt="Step 9" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>Now&#8230; very, very, very carefully pin the ribbon, material, and elastic together to hold it in place. Do this on both ends. Preferably put it about an inch away from the end so you can sew the ends and not be worried about the elastic falling.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-642" title="Step 10" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080134-300x168.jpg" alt="Step 10" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>Sew up the ends. Hold the ends together and stick it around your thigh where you want the garter to go. Make sure you&#8217;re still happy with it. If you&#8217;re not, well, I don&#8217;t know what to tell ya, but I&#8217;d check just to be sure.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-643" title="Step 11" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080135-300x168.jpg" alt="Step 11" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>Now&#8230; carefully sew the two ends together.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-644" title="Fin! " src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080136-300x168.jpg" alt="Fin! " width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-645" title="Fin 2! " src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/P1080137-300x168.jpg" alt="Fin 2! " width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>Now you have a very pretty pretty garter. I&#8217;ve added a giant button over the seams &#8217;cause I wanted to. If the material is fraying (like mine) make sure to have some fray check or something on hand to fix it if you care too.</p>
<p>I made two garters, one to toss and one to keep. Not sure why I&#8217;m keeping one but whatev.</p>
<p>Next up&#8230; Table Runners!! Wooo!</p>
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		<title>Music Music Music ♫♪</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 04:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Music for the wedding has been an adventure, to say the least. Well, not really for the reception, we covered that pretty quickly  deciding that a DJ was important to us and thus throwing a huge chunk of the budget to that. However, the ceremony has been a wild ride. A friend of ours was [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Music for the wedding has been an adventure, to say the least. Well, not really for the reception, we covered that pretty quickly  deciding that a DJ was important to us and thus throwing a huge chunk of the budget to that.</p>
<p>However, the ceremony has been a wild ride.</p>
<p>A friend of ours was going to handle the music for us. He is in the music program at the University and thus was willing to help put together a brass quintet and it was going to be amazing. Then, the guys had to play at an away game in the marching band. Ugh.</p>
<p>So then we tentativly set up with another friend of ours and his string quartet. About two weeks later something else came up and they couldn&#8217;t do it. Ugh.</p>
<p>Then, we said, alright, we&#8217;ll just pay the <a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/?p=453">extra for the DJ</a> to handle that music.</p>
<p>Phew. Settled. Ha! You just thought it was. We realized we would be paying close to $1600 for wedding music and couldn&#8217;t do it. That&#8217;s all of our bills in a month. Nope. So we cancelled. Back at square 1.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ve decided to go forth with a playlist and a speaker and an iPod. Maybe. My dad is apparently in cahoots with the university looking for a string quartet.</p>
<p>If we get it&#8230; AWESOME!! If we don&#8217;t, well, we have a back up plan.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-624" title="wedding music" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/wedding-music.jpg" alt="wedding music" width="313" height="508" /></p>
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		<title>Hair Hair Hair</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 02:50:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m not sure what I&#8217;m gonna do with it for the wedding. I&#8217;m not paying to have my hair done because I have full confidence that I can make myself look beautiful without the help of a $60 hair do. Options: I have this great bun thing that I do a lot. It&#8217;s comfortable, easy [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not sure what I&#8217;m gonna do with it for the wedding. I&#8217;m not paying to have my hair done because I have full confidence that I can make myself look beautiful without the help of a $60 hair do.</p>
<p>Options:</p>
<ol>
<li> I have this great bun thing that I do a lot. It&#8217;s comfortable, easy to do, and cute.</li>
<li>I&#8217;ve also been playing with curling my hair, since it&#8217;s so stinking long.</li>
<li>I&#8217;ve seen some really cute braid like up do&#8217;s recently too.</li>
</ol>
<p>Perhaps I&#8217;ll do something with all three?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m just playing with my hair currently trying to come up with something. My guess is I won&#8217;t have a decision until you see me walking down the aisle (or the pictures hehe).</p>
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		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;ll remember, I really wanted Yay Flags for the wedding send off. Our venue won&#8217;t let us use rice, confetti, sparklers, birdseed, or petals. And, frankly, I like the pom poms, but I&#8217;m seriously doubting they would let us use those either. ) via Flickr Image via: a $10,000 wedding via: once wed So, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;ll remember, I really <a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/?p=213">wanted Yay Flags</a> for the wedding send off. Our venue won&#8217;t let us use rice, confetti, sparklers, birdseed, or petals. And, frankly, I like the pom poms, but I&#8217;m seriously doubting they would let us use those either. <img src='http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> )</p>
<p><img class="alignnone" title="Pom Pom Pelting " src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3151/2896376692_7979b719ce.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="233" /><br />
via <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/22555946@N00/2896376692">Flickr Image</a></p>
<p><img class="alignnone" title="Pom Pom Pelting2 " src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_dz9zZiCFFvE/SaLltqAd4QI/AAAAAAAAB8A/T9oIe_fvYOE/s1600/pompom.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="231" /><br />
via: <a href="http://tenthousandonly.blogspot.com/2009/02/549-close-but-not-really.html">a $10,000 wedding</a><br />
via: <a href="http://www.oncewed.com">once wed</a></p>
<p>So, I wanted Yay Flags. When I made this decision, I promptly ordered flags from <a href="http://www.orientaltrading.com/">Oriental Trading</a>. They were a great price, 5.99 per dozen. You can&#8217;t really beat that.</p>
<p>Now, flash forward to about a week ago. They have been happily sitting in their boxes since we purchased them. They made their move up to Nebraska and were quickly tucked away in our ever growing wedding corner of the house. Chet looked at me and said, &#8220;so, are we making the flags or not?&#8221; Ugh.</p>
<p>The directions for the yay flags call for printer/iron on paper and an iron (duh) that preferably works well. And a printer that isn&#8217;t a jerk. Oh, and maybe some patience.</p>
<p>We had none of that. So what was our solution?</p>
<p>Make stamps!!</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-596" title="yay flags (3)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/yay-flags-3-168x300.jpg" alt="yay flags (3)" width="168" height="300" /></p>
<p>This would be our dear friend Brittany who helped with the flags.</p>
<p>We purchased paint, laid out a few newspapers on the dining room table, poured paint onto said newspapers and Chet and Brittany began stampin&#8217; away.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-599" title="yay flags (6)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/yay-flags-6-300x168.jpg" alt="yay flags (6)" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-595" title="yay flags (2)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/yay-flags-2-300x168.jpg" alt="yay flags (2)" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>Alana and I were in charge of gluing the sticks to the canvas, becuase the sticks very easily would just slip out and I was worried about someone poking their eyes out. Much like if we were giving Red Ryder BB Guns out at the wedding.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-598" title="yay flags (5)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/yay-flags-5-168x300.jpg" alt="yay flags (5)" width="168" height="300" /></p>
<p>Then, Ted showed up! Bless him! He cut the tags off the back since they were bothering me.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-600" title="yay flags (7)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/yay-flags-7-168x300.jpg" alt="yay flags (7)" width="168" height="300" /></p>
<p>We ended up with 80ish I believe.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-601" title="yay flags (8)" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/yay-flags-8-300x168.jpg" alt="yay flags (8)" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-594" title="yay flags" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/yay-flags-300x168.jpg" alt="yay flags" width="300" height="168" /></p>
<p>Currently, I am debating about writing on the back of them</p>
<p>&#8220;CHET AND NICOLE  EST. 11/21/2009&#8243;</p>
<p>Because, you know they&#8217;re flags. One must have an established date with flags. <img src='http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  And, without a flag, you are obviously not a country. Or an entity.</p>
<p>We have some other fun projects to show you with only 13 days until the wedding!!</p>
<p><strong>UPDATE</strong>:</p>
<p>I wanted to show you my yay flags in all their awesomeness:</p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/ChetAndNicole_Details017.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-908" title="Yay Flag in Use " src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/ChetAndNicole_Details017-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/exit.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-909" title="exit" src="http://chetandnicole.com/blogs/nicoleblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/exit-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>By the end of the night, there were probably only about 80 people there, which was perfect since that&#8217;s all we made&#8230;.</p>
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